I Am So Proud!!
By Gloria Walsh
For weeks, my daughter Ashlee, age 13, had been talking about
doing a presentation on stuttering in front of her class or at
an assembly, and I was getting more and more nervous. I was concerned
about how her peers would respond, and I did not want her to be
disappointed or hurt if it did not go as she expected.
It also troubled
me that she kept skipping lunch in order to work on her PowerPoint
presentation in school instead of eating and socializing with
her friends, and yet, I admired her determination. Well, this
went on for a few weeks and she continued to carry this red folder
marked "Presentation" to and from Lee
Caggiano's office and to school. I tried to encourage her to do
the presentation at one of her Girl Scout meetings instead because
I knew they were friends and they would be supportive, etc.
Well, my stubborn, determined Ashlee (yeah!) continued to move
forward with her plan to do a presentation, despite my objections
and concerns. She went in early to school a couple of times to
meet with her English teacher and at other times with the SLP
at her middle school.
Finally, the day was here. She did not appear
nervous but full of energy and excitement. She invited her brother
Michael, age nine, to sit in on the presentation as he stutters
also (he was happy to be late to school!). And yes, I was invited
too.
I can't begin to tell you how nervous, excited, and proud I felt
to be sitting in the back with my son and watching my radiant,
beautiful daughter stand in front of a group of about thirty of
her peers during English class and proceed to do such a fun and
informative presentation on stuttering! She gave out some basic
facts and then proceeded to engage them in a game of stuttering Jeopardy. Everyone,
including the teacher, was having fun playing and learning about
stuttering. During the presentation, Ashlee invited Michael to
participate and he got right into it without hesitation. They
both went on to ask the class about a former Boston Red Sox player
who stuttered and was now a New York Yankee. What a reaction from
the class when they heard it was Johnny Damon!
My kids have given me many opportunities to be proud of them,
but Ashlee outdid herself this time. I was glowing while in that
classroom and I felt so proud of her standing up there, not letting
stuttering stand in her way of giving out information she felt
was important to disseminate to her class and having fun while
doing it!
I will always remember 1/19/06, the day a young lady named Ashlee
decided to embrace life's challenges and tell her class loud and
clear that she and her brother stuttered, and that they weren't
the only ones! In the past two Friends conventions, the message
was clear. If you advertise your stuttering, you'll stutter less!
The courage, determination, confidence, and persistence that Ashlee
exhibited made me so proud! Perhaps, one day, Michael, too, will
decide to do something similar. If he doesn't, that is OK, too.
All I know is that I was so-o-o-o proud of Ashlee!
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